Love and sex in Japan - statistic & facts
However, a factor frequently overlooked when discussing the presumed, non-existent sex life in Japan is the participation in less conservative acts of sexuality, such as casual sex, masturbation, non-heterosexual relationships, extramarital activities, or paid services.
How do singles meet in Japan?
The individuals looking to find a partner have several options at hand, from traditional to digital. Japanese opting for matchmaking meetings, so-called omiai, intend to find a spouse in an arranged setting. Traditionally, suitable partners were introduced to each other by family friends and acquaintances. Nowadays, an agency tipically functions as the go-between to select and introduce marriage candidates. Omiai was a very common practice in the past, however, modern singles often choose more informal meeting opportunities.A popular and pragmatic way to meet potential partners in modern Japan is through professionally organized dating events, known as konkatsu (marriage hunting) events. Oftentimes, konkatsu agencies advertise their events by targeting a very specific customer base, who fulfill or are looking for a specific set of requirements, such as income, occupation, or age. During the konkatsu parties, participants are invited to interact with each other over a selection of food and drinks, reassured that every potential marriage candidate fits the anticipated criteria.
Gokon meetups, on the other hand, are usually more casual and can be described as group blind dates. In this setting, the same number of female and male participants meet for drinks and informal mingling. Usually arranged by a group of friends or colleagues, this get-together aims at connecting singles with similar backgrounds through mutual acquaintances. While not as widespread as in Western countries, online dating is the latest approach to finding love in Japan. Matchmaking apps and services, which were both internationally and domestically developed, have grown their presence in the Japanese dating market recently.
Loopholes of the Japanese adult entertainment industry
The Japanese pornography market is among the most active in the world, releasing a broad spectrum of adult videos (AVs), printed publications, and corresponding merchandise. The domestic porn industry is subject to strict censorship, typically through bowdlerizing the explicit display of pubic hair or genitalia. However, manga and anime avoid such restrictions via artistic license, for example by a simplified depiction of genitalia or by portraying sexual intercourse with non-human characters.Paid coitus with an unspecified (unacquainted) person falls under the Japanese Prostitution Prevention Act and is, therefore, considered illegal. Sexual services in exchange for monetary compensation excluding coitus, such as oral or anal sex, as well as paid intercourse between specified (acquainted) people are not covered by bespoken law. This legal limbo of paid sexual services allows several adult entertainment businesses to flourish in Japan. A prime example of successfully utilizing suchlike gray areas are so-called soaplands. Clients pay to enter facilities, which offer bathing and massage services. By participating in said services, clients and ‘soap girls’ have the chance to get acquainted. Based on the Japanese law, this makes any additional, paid-for sexual interaction, theoretically, legal. While soaplands primarily target male customers, some businesses started to cater to female patrons.